Marriage door of the date, and the entrance of the gains many of the individual and society, therefore, attempts to marry obedience to God and following the example of the Prophet peace be upon him, he finds help from God, he said, peace be upon him: (three right on God's help: for the sake of God, and offices that wants performance, and condition is, who wants to chastity) [Tirmidhi, Ahmad, and the Governor]. Marriage thus becomes a pure worship of God will be rewarded by the next.
As for its achievement, they are many, marriage is through the legitimate enjoyment of each spouse to the other, and the satisfaction of sexual desires, are unacceptable to God and His Messenger, he said, peace be upon him: (dear to things of this world: women and perfume, and made the apple of my eyes in prayer) [Ahmad, Women, and the Governor].
Marriage manholes tortured to gain advantages. He said peace be upon him: (In a few (a euphemism for sexual intercourse) of you charity). They said: O Messenger of Allah, the affluent, and be rewarded? He said: (Do you see, if he does it in a haraam, he would be punished?). They said: Yes. He said: (So if he does it in a halaal had a reward) [Muslim].
He said peace be upon him - well -: (and you will not spend the expense to achieve them by the face of God but rewarded for it, even make it in (the mouth) your wife) [Agreed].
Marriage provides for a Muslim to the causes of chastity, and help him to keep away from immoral actions, and safeguard of the whispers of Satan, he said, peace be upon him: (The woman accepted in the form of the devil, and management in the form of Satan (ie that the devil emblazoned with those who see and will keep trying) If you saw a woman (ie: foreign) whatever he wants, let him his family, that is what is in the same) [Muslim].
It is a means to save the offspring, and the survival of the human race, and the continuation of human existence, he says: {O people, fear your Lord who created you from a single person, created, including her husband and transmit them many men and women} [women: 1]. It means - well - to sustain life, and through the reconstruction of the earth, and to achieve solidarity between parents and children, where parents spend on children and education, then children under the auspices of the Fathers, be good to them when their disability, and old age.
And a righteous son along for the work of the couple after their death, he said peace be upon him: (When the son of Adam dies, his work except for three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge or a righteous child who prays for him) [Muslim].
And marriage for cooperation, a woman enough her husband manage the home, and the creation of livelihoods, and the husband is earning enough burdens, and managing the affairs of life, he says: {And put between you affection and mercy} [Roman: 21].
And the legitimacy of the marriage relationship, the reservation of rights and genealogy of their respective owners, and safeguard the privacy and symptoms, and cleanse the breath of corruption, and publishes morality and ethics, he says: {And those who guard their chastity. Except from their wives or what their right hands possess, they are not to blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, such are transgressors} [Passages: 29-31].
He said peace be upon him: (you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock, shepherd and is responsible for his flock, and the man is the shepherd of his family and is responsible for his flock, and the woman is the shepherd in her husband's house and is responsible for her flock, and the server is the shepherd of master's wealth and is responsible for his flock, The man is the shepherd of his father's wealth and is responsible for his flock, you is a shepherd, and you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock) [Agreed].
Also contributes to the marriage in strengthening the bonds of love and cooperation through intermarriage, and widening the circle of relatives, he is a solid brick in community cohesion and strength, he says: {He it is Who created man from water of lineage and marriage: for your Lord is powerful} [Furqan: 54].
As the mystery of the Prophet peace be upon him Brown Almstalegh in the Battle of Amartisie, and the families of them created a lot, he married Ms. Fatima bint al-Harith - and was among the prisoners - fired companions what was in their hands of the prisoners; the sake of the Prophet peace be upon him and in-laws, was married more Swimming folk.
This was some of the benefits of marriage many, and Islam is keen to obtain every man and woman share of those benefits and therefore wished to marry and urged him, and ordered the woman's guardian to marry her, he says: {peace and blessings of translated here from you and the righteous, fit And Allaah is they are poor, Allah will enrich them of His bounty, and Allah is Knower, large} [Nur: 32]. He said Islam who refuses to marry his daughter or his client - if it finds a suitable husband for her - a spoiler in the ground. He said peace be upon him: (If you come to one whose religion and character, but do not sedition and corruption in the earth) [Tirmidhi].
Faith in the marriage:
Umar ibn al-Khattab - may Allah be pleased with him - said: The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: (but works by the intentions, but each person what he intended, it had emigrated to Allah and His Messenger, his emigration to Allah and His Messenger, and had emigrated for worldly or to marry a woman , Vahjrth immigrated to him) [Agreed].
And good intention that it intended to be the face of God, usually turn to worship. People when they marry them from seeking wealth and riches, and some of them trying to protect himself, the intention in is important in all this.
If I accept a Muslim to marry, he should bear in mind that by the formation of a Muslim home again, and the establishment of the family; to come out of the Muslim world, men and women qualified, and to know that in marriage doeth good to his religion and worldly affairs, as it has Ihsana him Iafava.
Prophetic years of marriage, honest!
We all know that the Prophet peace be upon him said: (Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me), if we look at the Koran do not see any mention of a girlfriend or Habiba or mistress, but we believe that God since Adam said: (And We said: O Adam, dwell thou and thy Paradise ) [al-Baqarah: 35] Marriage is a divine since God created Adam peace be upon him, and continued this year for thousands of years and there was no error or negative consequences for the process of marriage, but when a person is this year, problems began to come in and started the negative consequences of floating on the the surface, and researchers began to advocate the need to return to normal marriage Kaftrp.
And the Almighty said: (and that He created for you wives from among yourselves to repose in them and put between you affection and mercy in this are Signs for those who reflect) [Roman: 21]. And if God wants to assure us through this verse on the need to adhere to the law of marriage and of breach, and that "marriage" itself is a verse and a miracle worthy of reflection (in this are Signs for those who reflect), what happens if a person gave up the marriage! Disturbances and will begin disintegration of the family, and begin to crimes, and will be shown a generation of criminals, then praise be to Allah who blessed us with this wonderful year.
Year study confirms the greatest prophet: Married couples are healthier
According to a recent study by CNN site that married in better health than those enjoyed by singles, although married men are more likely to be overweight or obese than other men, in the census by the National Center for Health Statistics.
In fact, the report did not specify which was published on 12.16.2004 and is based on interviews with more than 125 thousand people, the reasons for it. Said Charlotte Schoenborn, the expert in health statistics is a Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in the United States, which led the study, said that there are two theories to conclude his report, according to The Associated Press.
The first theory is the theory of protection of marriage and the Marriage Protection believes that married couples may enjoy the more positive aspects to the concept of economic resources and social and psychological support and encouragement to adopt healthy lifestyle.
The other theory is the theory of choice of marriage Marital selection and that the health of most people marry and remain married, while does not provide at least the health of the marriage is or is likely to become more vulnerable to separation or divorce or become widows if they marry.
The report found that among adults age 18 and over, 11.9 percent of them said they were in poor health. He said nearly 10.5 percent of married couples they are in poor health, while a higher proportion of other groups. Widows appear to be among the highest in these groups when the proportion stood at 19.6 percent
How is silence between husband and wife?
The researchers in the field of psychology on the importance of the man's wife, and they say that there is always a girl near him will reduce stress significantly and reduce the anxiety and frustration. In a recent study found that men when they travel, especially frequent travel for work or trade, or study, the risk of heart disease to be infected is very low when it is accompanied by his wife!
They also found that married men are more able to focus and creativity, while married women have found it more able to give the woman is married, and in light of domestic violence that we see today in developed countries, the scientists assert that most of the violence resulting from the violation of natural marriage, and resort to illegal marriage, where you can find a man and a woman living together without any marriage contract, and this leads to instability.
Scientific and increase production capacity to innovate
Confirms a recent study conducted by scientists at the University of Kansas (November 2006) that the world is married to more creative and scientific production of the world's single, but the study confirms that the scientific production decline in married women because of Ancgahin the affairs of the house and raising children and the responsibility of the husband.
In this sense, giving married women and creativity focused towards her children and her home and her husband, and that the grace of God to the couple to live in complete comfort. The scientists also found that the person who is reluctant to marry and live alone and be at a greater proportion to disease stress and heart attacks!
Striking impact of the good words!
Good word is charity! So tell us the greatest prophet, peace be upon him, if the word is kind of strange how a person if a wife or husband, what will be the reward and the reward is with Allah Almighty?! The researchers maintain that today's speech is full of tenderness and passion and compassion has a stunning effect on each of the spouses, and reduce to a large extent of the problems between them.
The newspapers published a few days ago a news story by doctors as a miracle in the world of medicine, the woman was ill lost his consciousness and entered a coma, and continued the case for many months, but her husband had been sitting all day next to a speak to her words, pleasant and assures her that he loved and cherished by , while the doctors scoffed at it but that the pair assured them that the words good effect is staggering.
It is strange that the missing wife of consciousness and regained consciousness a sudden!! Surprised doctors and stop in front of this unique situation in which they were expected to remain so for several years, but his speech fails to stunning effect in the mass of Medicine.
From here, dear reader, may understand why the Prophet peace be upon him a lot of pleasant words with his wives, so much so that the last will and testament recommended and even stamp out his commandments were for the Nstusi women well, is there the greatest of the Holy Prophet? Late Western scientists know this fact! They spend billions of dollars today for the treatment of domestic violence, rape and homosexuality, but to no avail, so Beloved Do you know why the Holy Prophet interested in the issue of women and gave great attention? To read the following paragraph together to realize the seriousness away from the commandment of the Prophet and the language of numbers.
What happens if couples violates the human nature of God?
That God had deposited between the couple a sense of mutual lead to sleep husband to his wife, and stillness as well, and thus increasing their love and compassion, but there are couples from drifting away by God and disobey his orders, and estimated the grace of God Almighty, what is the result , Consider these statistics in the country's west, where the largest proportion of atheism as possible:
According to official statistics in the United States of America said that in every quarter of a minute there an incident of domestic violence lies somewhere, this is only in America! The statistics say that three-quarters of the victims are women!
In the European study conducted in 1992 found that 25% of women in Europe exposed to domestic violence incident in her life time and at least one (Council of Europe 1992).
In 1998 made the statistics more than a million and a half incidents of violence in America, including the 1830 case ended in death (of course this in one year and in one country Think about how many cases in ten years, and in several countries!), It is strange that we see a lot of psychiatric clinics, centers and associations and sites on the Internet dedicated to the treatment of the effects of violence between couples, but unfortunately the numbers on the rise.
We have taken the following recent statistics from sites A (Statistics of Battered Women, www.asafeplaceforhelp.org), which are especially women of the United States of America only:
- Every 9 seconds a woman assaulted them physically by her husband!
- 7% of American women were physically assaulted, and 37% have been assaulted emotionally to speak profanity and insults.
- Proportion of pregnant women who have been assaulted up to 26 percent.
And emphasizes that the statistical very large proportion of violence and homicide against women by husbands come from illegal!! With me to see the end of the year away from God and it would take a path contrary to the divine instinct, the Almighty says: (bestowed by God created mankind does not change God's creation is religion, but most people do not know) [Roman: 30].
Lovers of God! Most of these cases the result of a lack of faith in Allah and the Last Day, The psychologists that the most beautiful feeling among women that feel their value when the man, and feel that it is a big thing in his view, and this helps to stabilize the mental state of women greatly, and here are aware of the greatness of the commandment of the Prophet wonderful : (Treat women well)!
The consequences of violating the human nature of God ...
There is also the issue of homosexuality resulted from the frequent nudity and immorality proclaimed and abstention from marriage, and in Western countries there is the phenomenon spread dramatically today is that we find a man living with another man or woman with woman, living a married couple, and statistics show that the rate of violence between homosexuals large too, up to 18 times of violence between couples natural. The rate of violence and beatings among homosexuals to more than 30 percent, according to these statistics (Statistics Canada, Canada's National Statistical Agency, July 7, 2005).
The researchers in this area is natural that the relations between any same-sex marriage and call it homeopathy, does not last for more than two or three years, this is the biggest proof that anything contrary to human nature of God does not continue and bear fruit!
AIDS: Results from encroachment away from God
It is obvious to one today, how the practice of adultery and the Declaration of the cause of serious diseases are not for treatment on her head: AIDS, "says the latest statistics on the disease, which appeared more than a quarter of a century, and although countries should spend billions of dollars to deal with this disease However, the numbers are still increasing, the following facts:
The continent of Africa is most affected by this deadly disease, "says Dr. Jesse Chen" from the University of California: This disease is spreading in Africa is terrible, and there are 350 million people with HIV, and the number of fatal injuries 25 million infected die each year, two million people! Of course, most of the casualties outside the Islamic countries in sub-Saharan any! This material proof that the teachings of Islam is correct. Consider these numbers:
In South Africa there are 20% of the population living with HIV AIDS!!
From 2002 until 2020, AIDS will kill 68 million people in the world!
Emphasizes the United Nations that this disease needs each year $ 10 billion expenditure a treat!
United Nations tells us that there is the world's 14 thousand people are infected with HIV every day!!! And a half this number of women, and of these 2000 children and a baby girl! We say every day, hopes to such large numbers. The losses will cause the disease in 2008 is 22 billion dollars!
The harvesting of AIDS since 1980 and until the end of 2005 more than 27 million people including men, women and children, and in 2005 alone has lost more than 3 million people lost their lives, and there are more than 40 million people living with this virus and will die sooner or later.
The researchers that the majority of AIDS cases resulting from abnormal sexual relations and sexual relations prohibited drugs, and all these things are forbidden by God Almighty, and we should think about the results of moving away from the path of Allah and the instinct of God created mankind.
Consider me this divine call of every believer: (Say to the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that is purer for them that Allah is Aware of what they do) [Nur: 30]. If people applied this Divine Will one injury in the world!
Doaa easy to get married
In the name of God the Merciful, Praise be to Allah, Lord of the Worlds
And peace and blessings be upon His prophet and the family of his house, his family and companions
O Allah I bear witness that there is no god except You Self-Sufficient Master, who begets not and has no longer a
Spend my need, Anas and two Faraj my complaint make a good companion to me a lot and we praise you'll remind me a lot and sees my Mujibur Alamadtarama invited you, analyze the security of complexes that Rootai, Faraj my complaint
Oh my God, grant me from Thee a good husband and make us love, compassion and kindness you capable of everything you say something to Be God give us in this life and in good faith and the afterlife torment of the Fire Lord, do not leave me the best person you inheritors
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